Guest Post by Adrian Collins I wanted to be the courageous birth mom. I wanted to be the attentive adoptive mom for my son. I wanted to be the always loving mom for my three biological children. I wanted to prove myself worthy for the daughter I placed for adoption…and years later re-adopted into the family. And I wanted to… View Post
There was a (long) period in my life when I attempted to surround myself with perfection. I believed that if I said and did the right things, participated in enough bible studies, hung out with religious people—eventually I would succumb to perfection. I would radiate goodness. I would appear unblemished. Instead, I wore myself out. I was suffocating on the… View Post
“Wait…we have a sister?” If you haven’t told your biological children about a child you placed for adoption…it’s time. Today, in fact. Okay, so that’s easier said than done. From personal experience I know this: the longer you wait to share the truth the greater chance there is for shame and guilt to permeate our thoughts and actions. I waited… View Post
“Take the time to fill your cup with love and peace. Then you’ll be able to pour it into others. This not selfish. This is necessary.”~Unknown. ☕️ ▪️On finding joy after placement: Take time for you! ☕️ You are not responsible for mending everything that’s broken. You don’t need to make everyone happy. You don’t need to prove yourself to… View Post
Suggestions for Adoptive Parents Supporting Child During Search Dear Angel: Do you have any suggestions for adoptive parents to support their children when their search isn’t easy? Dear Friend: Great Question! The task of helping your child search for their birth family can be a difficult journey—It can take an emotional toll when searching appears to hit a wall…. View Post